Ask Amy: Are my 3 college rules too harsh? My daughter says they are.
Dear Amy: My wife and I have two children. From the time they were very young, we made our limits for college very clear: They have to get A’s or B’s – nothing below a B. They can’t get into trouble with the law or the school. They have to find something meaningful to do aside from their schooling – such as volunteering or a part-time job. Things that will build up their résumés for the next stage of their lives. We have said that if they don’t satisfy these parameters, we will not pay for their schooling. We will judge this on a semester-to-semester basis. We realize that these are high standards, but as a family, we have high standards. That’s the way it is. Our daughter came home from her first semester at college with B’s and C’s. She has not gotten into trouble, but she has not found any worthwhile outside activities. My wife and I gave her one more semester to get it together, but she recently told us that she is worried that she isn’t able to bring her grades