Harriette Cole: My neighbor is interrupting my workday
DEAR HARRIETTE: I have the privilege of working from home as an executive assistant to a veterinary medicine professional. My job requires me to manage a lot of on-call appointments and real-time scheduling, which demands focus and attention. While I enjoy the flexibility of working from home, it comes with its own set of challenges. One of the biggest disruptions is my neighbor, who has a habit of dropping by unannounced. Although I genuinely enjoy her company and value our friendship, these interruptions are starting to affect my productivity. It’s becoming increasingly difficult to balance being polite with staying on top of my responsibilities. I don’t want to hurt her feelings or come across as unfriendly, but I need to find a way to set clear boundaries. How can I communicate this in a way that preserves our friendly relationship while ensuring I can focus on my work? — Need Space DEAR NEED SPACE: Get or make a sign that says “Busy Working” or “Do Not Disturb — Working,” and hang it on your door. Or, if necessary, lock your door. Talk to your neighbor