Harriette Cole: Nobody bothered to check on me despite what I told them
DEAR HARRIETTE: For the past few years, I have been getting together for dinner with a few other women with whom I used to work. When the first woman left for a new job, another woman started a text group so we could all stay in touch. That same woman organizes a dinner a few times per year. That is basically the only communication among the group. None of us work together anymore, and I have been away from that company for a couple of years. Over the last year or two, it has become clear that the original organizer is the only one who is interested in continuing these get-togethers. We basically never communicate unless she is setting up dinner. I recently went through a stressful life event. In the middle of that, one of these dinner invites came out. I responded to the group with a brief explanation of what was going on and said I would not be available for a couple of months while I worked through this. The fact that nobody reached out to check on me confirmed that it