Harriette Cole: I can’t afford to lose this job, but it’s getting scary
DEAR HARRIETTE: I’m really stuck right now and could use some advice. I’m 29, and I work as a babysitter for a family that pays really well, which is crucial for my daughter’s therapy bills. The problem is that the parents have been treating me poorly — lots of verbal abuse and unreasonable demands. I’m concerned about my safety if their behavior escalates, but I also can’t afford to lose this job due to my financial needs. I’m trying to figure out how to deal with the family or look for another job, even if it means facing financial uncertainty. What do you think I should do? — Abusive Employer DEAR ABUSIVE EMPLOYER: Whenever you feel stuck, take a pause. Be still. Review your situation and your options carefully, and look for a solution. When we worry about things, it can be impossible to find a way out. In your case, the good news is that there are many families that need babysitters and many that are willing to pay well. There is no reason you should stay in an abusive relationship of any kind